So *spoilers spoilers, obvi*
I waaaas a little confused that we just agreed to do what the Highmother asked. The only thing I could think of was that she was a veeeery high-ranking person within their society, though that was never explicitly stated. For all I knew, at first, she was the Highmother of just that ship. So making that connection clearer could make things make more sense? I mean, we didn't even really research her or anything, or even try to confirm her claims through other channels. (We also didn't say we'd need more info on the "contacts" or satellite procedure before making a decision, which seemed odd.)
Having a great time!